February 2012
170 posts
“I didn’t want to kiss you goodbye — that was the trouble — I wanted to kiss you...”
– Ernest Hemingway (via handcraftedinvirginia)
“Just move in the direction of your soul’s longing. Do not worry about where it...”
–
Ann O’Shaughnessy
HEY EVERYONE.
polycule:
Come to New York City October 5-7 because PolyNYC is hosting the 12th Annual Poly Pride Weekend, including a rally in Central Park, a dance party, and
A FUCKING HUGE SUPER MASSIVE CUDDLE PARTY.
That is all.
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Something Else Entirely: I've found my anger... →
something-else-entirely:
Almost a year ago our girlfriend hopped up out of our bed, late, hurriedly dressed and ran out the door, running back into the bedroom a moment later, kissing us both and happily telling us she loved us before running back out again. Just a week after that, the one who stole our hearts and…
I love you, Todd Eric. This will get better. We will heal. And, even...
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“That’s who you really like. The people you can think out loud in front of.”
– John Green (via nervouslaugh)
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Journal post
I woke up at 2:08 this morning and could not go back to sleep. All the thoughts of this new place we are in had me awake and worried.
I FBed “Can’t sleep. Too many thoughts running around in my head.”
I fell back to sleep at about 5:00. Up at 6:00 for work. At almost 7 I get a text from her “Scary… almost put a similar post on FB about 4 hours ago… I...
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Polyfabulous: Introversion and Polyamory →
polyfabulous:
I’m an introvert, so being around people tires me out. The Meyers-Briggs test I always score INTP or INTJ.
I’m also polyamorous, so I’m around more people daily than most people. My stamina for social interaction is improving, and sometimes I will get very tired of being around my poly blob, but…
THIS, THIS, THIS!!!!!!!! I need to remember this too. Thank you for...
Poly-Baiting: Why We Need a More Inclusive LGBTQ... →
I can't sleep!
Too many thoughts and worries are running through my head. I hate stressing about things…..!!!!!
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Our Poly life update...
Hi guys! Just wanted to get some thoughts out and update where we are right now. We are seeing a new woman. We shall call her J. She works with Todd. She is much older than the women we have dated in the past, but I see that as a very good thing. She has three daughters. 12, 10, 3. It’s only been about 2 weeks that I’ve known her. Needless to say, Todd has known her much...
I'm trying to expand my network of friends.
herpsiderp:
Reblog (or like if you are more comfortable) if you’re polyamorous or a poly blog and I’ll check you out/99% likely that I’ll follow you :) It’s an ongoing adventure and learning experience being poly, and I want to connect with as many of you out there as possible so we can all help each other grow <3
SuperPoly Friends Assemble!
msjunesunshine:
I read this out loud to my husband and said “I’m a super hero!”
He raised his eyebrow and then laughed at me.
This is so hard...
The woman we are seeing right now has three kids. As hard as it is to navigate poly dating, it’s a million times harder with four kids in the picture….
“The non-possessive, honest, responsible ethical philosophy and practice of...”
– Polyamory (via a-blog-called-everything)
Destination Detour,
WE HEART YOU!!!!!!! :D
http://destinationdetour.tumblr.com/
Anonymous asked: Hi I am just curious about the poly life style so I have a few questions. how do you stop people being jealous of one another? Do you ever love someone more then another? I know all loved are different but do you have a preference or a favorite? how do you over come these probelems?
Anonymous asked: I would like to add another female partner to my male/female relationship but we are having a hard time find the right female. She needs to be sexually attracted to both me and my bf. Any tips?
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extoria asked: I think my friend is in a similar situation as you (well, not married, and I don't think poly....) - I mean the gay female in a relationship with a man. She identifies as lesbian, because everyone she has primary sexual attraction to is female/female-bodied, but she has developed secondary sexual attraction (I think that's what it's called) towards her boyfriend because of her...
pezberryendgame asked: I mean this in the least offensive way, I promise. How does the gay female married to a man thing work?
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You know you're Poly when...
you text your girlfriend to ask if she’s heard from your husband… “Is he awake?”… because he has an appointment to take your son to.
polycule:
C emerged from my bathroom with an epiphanic look on his face and said:
“I just had one of those ‘you know you’re polyamorous when…’ moments. I noticed in your trash can a condom and a plastic cup. Rather than being concerned that you had sex with someone else, I’m more curious as to why you’re using disposable cups.”
You know you’ve got a good one when he’s more concerned with...
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Handcrafted Poly Pendant - Sterling Silver Heart... →
http://www.abzuemporium.com/products/Poly-Pendant—-Sterling-Silver-Heart-with-Copper-Infinity.html#.T0awM1GoElo.tumblr
“He is exactly
the poem
I wanted to write.”
– Mary Oliver, from “White Heron Rises Over Blackwater”
musings etc: I wonder what the neighbor thinks? →
smoresi:
I am an affectionate person. I love to hold hands and cuddle and kiss and all those things. When my husband and boyfriend and I all go out together, I hold hands with both of them.
Yesterday when I went to the neighbor’s to help him with his computer, he asked how long hubby and I had been…
I am openly poly to everyone in my life, even at work. I have to say, everyone...
reading the polyamory tag makes me feel less like...
teamcharliefoxtrot:
So apparently I’m a jealous hypocrite and an asshole for not wanting to be in a poly relationship.
Thank you very much, Internet.
~Cer
Cer,
I am a poly person, but I totally understand why people would not choose this lifestyle. I hate that you are being pressured about polyamory. And, I just have to say, whomever said the above to you is an ASS. I truly hope this...
Dammit! I miss my girls! I want Tor and K here.
I even miss the ex right now. (but I don’t want her here… I’d only want to smack her. lol)
